How do you cope with the changes that happen in your life? Do you feel comfortable knowing that your life will never stay the same? It seems like nothing goes the way it’s supposed to in our lives. No matter how hard we try, things are constantly changing. But are you accepting these changes?
In a book by Mark Sanborn, The Potential Principle, he talks about “Better is the most important step to becoming your best” or “Become Better Than Best”. Best is seen as a pedestal, as a result, as a limit to what we do. Better is a continuous improvement. We may strive for the best, and that’s great. But there’s always room for improvement, becoming better than best.
Acceptance is a critical factor in your life. Accepting you, other people, and even tricky situations help you to see the more straightforward path ahead. Acceptance will positively impact other aspects of your life as well, such as how you’ll be able to better yourself.
The world is full of people who are constantly trying to fit in with the rest. It is not until you are comfortable in your skin that you will see your true colors.
Our environment influences our personality, and our current environment does affect how our brain processes information. We feel things differently because the brain constantly changes, and our character changes over time to reflect these changes.
Each day we’re surrounded by countless influences – TV, the media, radios, your home – and we tend to be more judgmental than ever. It’s important to stay true to yourself and find things that help you.
It is difficult for everyone to change the way they think and behave. Often, we are influenced by what others think or do in their lives, which is a component of learning and acceptance. The best way is to be your own influencer and let you influence others instead of being affected by them.
Humour. In life, it is essential to laugh at yourself. If you get mad at yourself for your mistakes, you’ll end up feeling insecure and embarrassed. It’s also important to laugh when others make you angry, or otherwise, they’ll take advantage of your weakness. Humor is the most effective way to feel good about yourself. When you laugh at life, you can move on from your problems with ease. Laughing is also the best way to influence others positively.
Hunger. As you get older, you go through different stages of development. As a child, your hunger gets bigger. You are hungry for more knowledge, time with family and friends, new experiences. As an adult, your hunger is to exercise your body and mind to better yourself.
Many benefits come from learning how to accept the things that have happened in your life. You can focus on what you can do and move on from what you cannot do. To fully accept your current situation, you must be aware of what is going on around you and be mindful of the emotions that come with it.